We have all these match making web sites, join and meet your soul mate for a monthly fee. We also hear the advertisers of these said sites say how happy John and Cindy are now that they have united on their site. I think that is so wonderful! With all the cyber communication that happens today it just seems to follow suit.
I am wondering some where in there data base are the 40 something's falling into a black whole. This is an age that people that happen to be single I think really know what they want out of a relationship. They've been around the block, had a bad marriage or 2, know what it feels like to be hurt and happy. I have noticed that at the ripe old age of 43 and single it seems so much tougher than when I was 20. I have an empty nest, my kids are grown and I am a free spirit so to speak.
Am I not sharing the right things on my match made in heaven web site? Am I being to open? Not open enough? My friends say I can be intimidating to men. I have a real presence when I walk into a room, a confident smile and I have to say I am no hag. At 5'9'' slim, nice body, beautiful smile. How can that all transfer to a web site? are they still intimidated? The guys in there 20's are not running from me outside of the cyber world. I could have my pick of those all day. The guys in their 50s and 60s don't run either. Where are the guys my age?
Every morning I go to my match making web site to see whos not responding and who is.
Men where are you. Why are you not stepping up to the plate? Why did you sign up for this? Did you want to date a potential future partner?
